Everyday a new flock of men takes flight into the world of online dating. A growing number within this flock fly further than most and venture out into the elite world of international dating. If you are part of this rare but expanding breed you will want to have blow-away first dates and initial encounters with the women you meet.
Dating a foreign girl face-to-face is not the same as speaking to her over the Internet. And it’s certainly not anywhere near close to dating girls face-to-face in the U.S., Australia, Canada and parts of Europe.
These 3 easy to use steps below will stack the deck in your favor when it comes to achieving rocking success on your dates with foreign women.
Plan And Budget
Plan ahead what you are going to do, not last minute. Fail to plan and plan to fail. When you have a plan it makes things easier on you and keeps the stress off. Planning lets you have fun and focus on the girl when you are on the date instead of worrying about what you are going to do or if she is enjoying herself.
Before you decide where you will go, make sure you know about her tastes. Look for something she enjoys doing or has never done before but would like to. If you know she is afraid of heights don’t take her Bungee jumping.
If are traveling on a budget take time to get an idea of what the date will cost ahead of time. Before you set your dates call the places you will visit or ask the hotel where you will be staying (call before going) about cost of the activities you enjoy, the food at local restaurants, price of theater tickets, cab fair and guest charges at the hotel. When you know you have the money to pay for what you like and she enjoys on a date it helps you lean back and really have fun.
Indoors or Outdoors
You will impress her most by spending less. Foreign women are really not attracted to lavish spending, loud behavior and show-off attitudes. Despite what popular stories lead many to believe, these women prefer men who are modest and compassionate.
If your first date is indoors, go for class and substance over flash and costly style. Look for quiet intimate settings with a relaxed atmosphere. Avoid loud bars or clubs on a first date. A cup of coffee, glass of wine and light meal are very common first dates in foreign cultures.
If you are going on a outdoors date, try to avoid group tours or group activities for the first date unless she is bringing a chaperon. Go with things built for two like bike rides, nature walks, and picnics. Rent a small private powerboat (with captain) and go snorkeling, do a tour of the main city, zip limning. The Internet is full of free date ideas, just type free date ideas into your favorite search engine and grab a list full of what you most like.
It doesn’t matter where you go, when it comes time for conversation if you want to score the major points a little preparation goes a long way. Make sure you have learned a bit of her language before arriving in her country. It will be fun to practice with the girls you meet. Especially the one’s you should be meeting online as far ahead of your trip as possible.
And be sure to have studied some of the countries history and cultural customs. Most important ask her lots of questions and listen closely. No matter what language is coming out of your mouths, the language of love transcends the voice and screams through the body. Listen, be open, be honest and watch the magic sizzle.
Do Clothe Really Make The Man?
You bet your bottom they do. But they don’t do it the way most people think. You don’t have to be James Bond with a tux or Will Smith with at the beach to look good. You must be comfortable.
Have you ever seen a well-dressed overweight man, who despite his size looks good in what he is wearing? If you notice he looks comfortable. He is happy, moving, smiling and looking good. No matter what your personal style is. If you wear comfortable clothing, which are clean well kept and help you feel good, you will always look like a million bucks.
If you dress a specific way as part of your culture and your taste you will definitely have the majority of success by looking for women who share this passion with you. One last thing on dressing when you date foreign ladies. Leave the tank tops, ankle length shorts and flip-flops at home or in the hotel. Dress to impress, clean up, shower, and don’t be lazy. These ladies notice the little details and the small extra-effort will take you a long way with them.
May these tips bring you closer to discovering the love beyond borders you most desire.